1st Rate Pet Services Summer 2023 recap

1st Rate Pet Services Summer 2023 recap
It’s been one crazy, tumultuous challenging year for us here at 1st Rate Pet Services! I had a webpage as our home page on 1stRateLife.com for awhile with the updates since it was the best way to make sure people knew what was going on. This blog post is a compilation of main ideas from the March-June, 2023 saga for anyone who didn’t catch the live version!!!  Blessedly, things are calming down a bit now.

March 8, 2023
Our scheduler, Leashtime, went down. It was just gone, apparently they had a server crash or something. The same day, my phone just died. I didn’t drop it or anything, it just went to sleep and wouldn’t wake back up and the shop couldn’t fix it.
In a panic, I created the “Leashtime Down, phone broke” website page, hoping when people tried to use Leashtime, they’d check our main website and see the note.

March 11, 2023
Leashtime still down, I began searching for other scheduling options, but all of them are outrageously expensive, we were “grandfathered in” at a really good price with Leashtime since we’d been with them very early on. My phone came in the mail, but my service provider was having tech issues with activating new phones, so I still wasn’t connected. More notes to email me with schedule requests and call/text Don if any issues.

March 13, 2023
My new phone was up and running, but I lost a lot of my contacts because my other phone was one version too old to transfer from the cloud, and since the phone itself was a really irritating paperweight by this time, I wasn’t sure what to do. I couldn’t look anyone’s number up on Leashtime, since it too was down. I put a note on the website to text or call me and tell me who you were so I could add you back in to my new phone contacts. Everyone was being VERY helpful and understanding during this stressful time!

March 23, 2023
I was about over Leashtime, so started researching our invoice service provider, 17Hats, to see if I could use them as a scheduling option also. It was a lot different than LeashTime, but seemed to be working alright for those who were using it.

April 14, 2023
I got a job as a “Lunch lady” with Marion County Public Schools. In 2022 we lost a number of pet customers (passing away), some of which were only pets. A few of our customers moved away also. The end of 2022 and beginning of 2023 were way slower than usual due to these things, and I’d been looking around for a job I could do “around” the pet sitting. I wanted it to be with a Florida Retirement System employer since I only had to work 1 year and a few months to be vested since I’d worked for the state when I lived in Pinellas County in the 1990’s. At that time, I didn’t even care about the retirement money they were saving for me, but now I sure do!
I took down the new 17hats schedule link because I was not as open as I used to be to take pet sitting requests last minute, and Don was going to be in Iowa for about 3 weeks in May, so I put back up the “email Julie” for scheduling info.

May 23, 2023
This was a lovely day (NOT). I posted a photo of Don’s ruined Ford Transit van with a note that he’d been in an accident while in Iowa. It was the other driver’s fault, and sadly he didn’t have any insurance. We only had liability coverage, so the van was totaled and sent to a junkyard. Don was now without a vehicle while in Iowa. He was hurt, but not devastatingly, which is a blessing. This was the moment I officially decided we need to tighten up our service area. I’d been considering it for around a year, but it was a difficult thing for me to do, so I kept putting it off. With my job and the accident leaving us with no back up vehicle, and Don with limited mobility for who knows how long due to his new back injury caused by the accident, it seemed like the only option. When he returned from Iowa (with a rental car his kids had helped him pay for, bless them,) he was in so much pain from the accident that I had to do all of the pet visits for the next three weeks, in addition to working as a lunch lady. I was exhausted and so grateful when school was over for the summer!

June 7, 2023
This was the last date on the “Leashtime down, phone broke” page. I’m just going to copy and paste the actual “blurb” for that one here….

Hello June, where is the year going? 
Today is June 7, 2023
The year is flying by, wow! A lot of changes happening for us here. The picture to the left is how I vision going through life's path, so I wanted to share. We are on one of the curves in the path as more changes, unexpected and some thought through, are happening. I'll be writing about it in more detail soon, but as I'm updating the website, I wanted to keep this page as the main page until everything else is in place. 
Due to various reasons, we are no longer serving as large of an area as we have been for the previous years. As mentioned below, I've been referring customers out of our new service area to other pet sitters, and since I've been doing that, Don won't be able to continue to do as many visits as we'd hoped due to the accident he was in last month in Iowa. His back got pretty messed up so he's limited on how much he can do. If you need visits, continue to text or email Julie and I can let you know what is up in that department. 
More coming soon, meanwhile have a fabulous summer!!!
July 27, 2023
So here we come to today, the actual day. It was a crazy summer with not only everything above, but also a few more challenges and surprises. About a week after Don got back, lightning struck a tree in our yard. Thank the Lord it didn’t land on our house or car, but it caused a big, downed tree mess and a power surge in our house that took out a number of electronics, an air conditioner and a light switch. Then 2 days later, during another storm, the top of a second tree that had been struck but not damaged at the time came crashing down on the roof of our covered back porch, crushing half of it. You can see some of the mess on our YT page here…

By this time we were somewhat numb to all of the stuff happening! We also were having issues with the Kia, which before had been the “back-up” car, but since the van was gone, it was Don’s only car, and we had to spend $$ we didn’t have to get that fixed a few times. I don’t know exactly how Don felt about everything, but I was afraid to leave the house, but whenever it thundered, I was terrified that we’d have another lightning strike or that another tree would fall ON our house this time.

I’m kind of getting over that now, 1 and ½ months later. In July I was blessed to have two week-long pet visits out of the area so was paid to “live-in” and that $$ helped keep us afloat after all the car repair issues.
So as the summer is winding down, we have referred a number of our customers who are out of our new, smaller service area to other pet sitters. At first it was so hard for me to let go of anybody, but I’m realizing I can’t take care of ALL the pets in the whole world, and I’m so happy to know other sitters I like and trust to take over. All of the customers have been so understanding and so supportive of us, I’m humbled, and relieved!

Another unexpected but exciting thing happened in April. I went to a job fair for the Marion County Schools, thinking instead of a lunch lady, maybe I could get an easier physical job (food service is HARD physical work!) Imagine my surprise when I was informed that I qualify to come in as a middle school Language Arts teacher with a temporary teaching certificate because of my Bachelor’s degree from 34 years ago having enough random English classes on it. I was very surprised, but said yes, and will be teaching sixth grade Language Arts for the 23-24 school year!
Don will still be doing pet visits full-time as he works on other projects he has going on. We are being selective about taking on anyone new so as not to overwhelm him. We still work with 2 other ladies who do visits for us sometimes, and I’ll be offering overnights to select customers as I can do them and still be at work all day teaching. This gives me the chance to still be with the pets, which was the hardest thing to let go of when I decided to get a “real” job again. I feel like overnights offers me a “win-win” situation!

We both have other things going on as well, but unless something unforeseen happens, will still have some version of 1st Rate Pet Services going for the next few years. Who knows what might happen when I’m able to retire!  


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Life is short, and living it in a 1st Rate way should be what ALL of us are doing on a daily basis.  Sadly, many...probably MOST...of the humans on the planet are not. 

The normal way of living for the masses is filled with struggle, worry and settling for what seems to be the best option. Most people don't even seem to realize there is an option to break free of the mediocre and lean in to the marvelous. Many people think working until retirement, THEN doing what they desire is the dream and spend the most vibrant years of life in perpetual "waiting to get old enough to retire" mode. If they are lucky, they make it and have a few years of bliss before succumbing to old age, sickness or even death. 

What if there is a better way? Why not start "really living" right this moment? Why not start creating your ideal 1st rate life right now!

According to Merriam-Webster, the definition of "first-rate" is "of the first order of size, importance, or quality."    

So, living a 1st Rate Life simply means living the highest quality of life possible. Since every person is different, a 1st Rate Life is going to look different for every single person. 

If I were to ask you right now, "Do you LOVE your life?" what is the first response that pops into your mind? 

  • Do you snort sarcastically because you don't love it but feel like it is your destiny and you have no other option?
  • Do you wince and think of all the things you DO NOT LOVE about your life, but can't really come up with much that you DO love? 
  • Do you think of some things you love, but some things that really could be better? 
  • Do you get a huge warm fuzzy feeling and think 'YES, I LOVE MY LIFE!' ?  (if so, YAY you!!!)
Maybe you're relationship with your life is somewhere in the middle. That is perfectly ok, but know this...

If you would like to uplevel to being able to say
"I LOVE MY LIFE," you absolutely have the power to do it. I did it and you can too! 
In 2011, I walked away from a perfectly good career because I couldn't stand the idea of going to that cubicle five days a week, 52 weeks a year for the next 20 plus years until I could retire.
I made decent money, had GREAT benefits, and was on a smooth ride to retirement, but when I pictured what the next number of years between where I was and where I could retire looked like, I felt my soul deflate a little every time the thought came up.

So I resigned. The story of how that happened is for another day, but it was a terrifying moment and I wondered if I'd gone insane as I walked across the office with my resignation letter in hand to give to my supervisor.  Then, as soon as I handed it to her, and the deed was done, I felt lighter and had a sparkle of hope where before there had been only frustration and longing.  I was still terrified and thought I'd lost my mind, but suddenly my slate was completely wiped clean and I had a new story to write, and that felt amazing!


The first step in creating my 1st Rate Life was making a decision to choose the unknown over the safe and same.  I chose fear over meaningless routine.  I chose to hop out of the box of what was considered normal and expected.

It was the BEST decision I have ever made, my life is SO MUCH BETTER now. Every day I am creating the first rate life I desire and am worthy of.  I now live in the flow of fun, curiosity, adventure and love every single day. Do I still have challenges and bad days? Absolutely. But now I have a much healthier, easier way of dealing with them and getting back into the flow of feeling good quicker than I ever used to.  

Do you have a vision for your own First Rate Life? Do you have a plan to get there?

Do you find yourself frustrated with your current life but not sure what you would even want to change to make it better?

If you answered yes to either of these questions, I can help! Sign up for a complementary dream clarity session with me today here !